You may have heard that women are always a mystery and men never really understand them. Well, actually things are not that complicated, it just seems that way because there are important things a woman will never tell her man or partner.
Take the time to read through these needs. Let them sink in. Understanding what you can do to help your partner fully open will not only improve your relationship, but it will improve your entire life.
1. Women want to be made to feel loved by you.
When women feel loved, they relax and open to us. The arguments dissipate, the sex is abundant and their nurturing feminine energy flows throughout our lives. Not feeling loved is the subtext of every argument that you and your partner have.
If she is unhappy that you are going out with your friends or she’s upset about her day at work or she is only responding to you with brief snippets of sentences, then the cause is most likely her not feeling loved enough. Learn to see through her words, actions and moods and see what the real root of it is.
2. Women want you to make them feel safe and secure.
There is a war being waged on women’s self-esteem, sexuality and safety from a very young age. Because of the barrage of dis empowering messages being sent to women regarding their sexuality. Women need to have a safe space where they feel that they can trust their partners.
She wants to trust your strength. She wants to feel like you can handle whatever she shows you. She wants to feel like you will not judge her if she asks for something risque. By creating a safe space for your woman to open up to you emotionally and sexually.
3. Women want you to be more aware of her emotions.
Women want to feel seen. She wants to feel you hearing her and being aware of her emotional state. She doesn’t necessarily want you to be affected by her emotional state, but she does want you to be witness to it. If she is sitting across the room from you and you aren’t picking up on the fact that she is suffering emotionally and on the verge of tears, she will begin to trust you less.
Life can seem extremely lonely, even within a relationship. You have to constantly show your partner that at least one person will be witness to her and her journey through life. (Hint: that person is you.)
4. Women want to take care of you just as you want to take care of them.
Just as masculine energy has the need to protect, feminine energy has the desire to nurture. Women want to see the cracks in our armour. They want to see that we trust them enough to open up to them. They want to be able to help us through our sadness. An integrated, evolved man who has a balanced masculine energy as well as his own sliver of feminine would welcome his woman’s nurturing.
“I don’t need to lay my head down on your chest and tell you about my feelings because I don’t have any!” That is a lie. It’s a lie that serves your purpose of not letting your partner in. This lack of vulnerability and authenticity is what is making you and your partner suffer. So let her in. She wants to love you.
5. Women want to Feel Sexually Desired
What’s a major difference between your relationship to your partner and your relationship to everyone else in your life? You have sex with your partner. Women need to feel sexually desired, they want to make sure that you see and appreciate them as a feminine, sexual being. Praise her body, feel her and grab her appreciatively. Remind her that you see her as a sexual being and you will both benefit.
6. For women Appreciation matters a lot.
The feminine in all people responds primarily to praise and appreciation. Remind your partner that you love her. Tell her that you appreciate what she brings to your life. Show her how much she means to you. The fastest way to run your relationship into the ground is by ignoring your partner and taking her for granted.
Appreciation is the opposite of those things. Appreciation is the embodying this mindset: “I am aware of what you bring to my life and I want you to be sure that I am aware of it as well.”So tell her what you appreciate and tell her often.
7. Women need to feel that they can rely on you.
Life gets pretty messy sometimes. When life’s unavoidable difficulties arise, do you fall apart under pressure or are you able to bend and not break? Women want to know that we can handle ourselves when life happens. They want to know that we won’t run and hide when they get a bit ‘too emotional’ for our liking. They want to know that they can count on us. When you tell your partner you’ll do something and then you don’t do it, it hurts her. She loses a piece of trust in you that has to be earned back.
Even seemingly small things break that trust like you saying that you will wash the dishes shortly after dinner, but washing them the next morning instead. When enough small transgressions like this are sprinkled throughout your relationship, she will distrust you. Do what you say you will do, be who you say you are and be consistent in your actions.
Follow these steps and make your woman truly happy.
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